Who looks after your baby?

There will be times when someone else has to look after your child. This could be a babysitter for a few hours while you go out or a full-time childminder. When you leave your child in the care of someone else you’re relying on that person to ensure your child is safe and well.

Babysitters

Babysitters do not need qualifications or a certificate to look after children. There is no recommended minimum age for babysitters. Generally 16 is considered an appropriate age for a babysitter. Parents should use common sense to make a decision based on their knowledge of the babysitter and their maturity. Often a reliable babysitter will have a good reputation locally and can be recommended by a friend or neighbour. Tell the babysitter all about your child’s routine and their likes and dislikes. Tell the babysitter about your rules, such as not smacking and not shouting.

Make sure you feel completely comfortable about your babysitter before you leave your child in their care. Tell your child who will be looking after them, where you are going and how long for. Ask your child how things went afterwards.

Childminders, playgroups and crèches

As a parent you are often the best judge of whether a childcare service will meet your child’s needs. When you leave your child in the care of others, you might want to check that:

• Their needs are being met and respected;
• Their cultural background is recognised;
• They will be happy there;
• The atmosphere feels right;
• A regular group of children attends so your child can make friends;
• Mealtimes are relaxed and fun;
• The outside area is well planned and spacious;
• Activities are varied and carefully planned and facilitate learning through play.

Ensure that your child is left in secure premises and that well-trained and experienced staff are caring for your child. You will also want the opportunity to get involved and know what your child is doing day to day. Take references or make enquiries from others who have used a particular childcare service. Check the staff’s qualifications. Visit the crèche and look for confident, happy, busy and relaxed children. Check how you will be informed about your child’s progress and in case of emergency how you will be contacted. Contact the preschool inspection team or check the crèche’s inspection reports.

Potential problems

Sometimes, children are not always able to tell you if something is wrong, so if a child suddenly does not want to go to the child minder or day care provider, don’t ignore this. It may be nothing, but keep an eye out for changes in their moods, behaviour and physical appearances and try to establish why these changes have occurred. Agree to discuss, from the beginning, all accidents and incidents.

Speak promptly to the person in charge about any concerns you have about your child. If you have serious concerns about your child’s safety, remove your child immediately.